On Being Wrong
I wanted to spend a little time in this blog on my favorite topic. It is my favorite topic expressly because I consider myself extremely good at it. Not only do I think this, but I am sure I can find many close acquaintances who would also agree with me. The topic I am talking about is –Being Wrong!
Being in a state of wrongness is an uncomfortable place to be. Empirically speaking, many who know they are "wrong" suffer the same malady: anxiety, sweaty hands, nervousness, a sense of aloneness; a feeling of being outside the norm or I might add separated from those who hold the consensus they are "right". Being wrong stigmatizes people. It sets them apart from everyone else who, ironically, think they are right. Now under ordinary circumstances, being wrong, many times, can be accredited to having the incorrect information or having no information at all. Or the knowledge or information you do have was false or had erroneously attributed origin. This is understandable and correctable. But I want to take a positive look at the idea of being wrong.
Children seem to take being wrong more in stride. It is not something they stress over too much. They realize their mistake and adopt a new attitude when the get new information. Adolescents start to lose this ability as they age. By the time we reach adulthood being wrong is a terrifying thought. In this information age, the idea of being wrong, with all the technology readily at hand you would think we would always be better informed and more 'right" more times than not.
I say being wrong isn't a bad thing. Being wrong is health and we should not ridiculed anyone for being wrong. I truly believe, for most of us, we are going to be wrong about half the time in all decisions we make. If we don't allow ourselves the luxury of being wrong, I fear learning will stop. For us to get to a reasonable conclusion about anything requires us to be wrong. How else will be able to strive to be right? Without the willingness to take a risk to be wrong, our future learning will be at stake. And we will achieve nothing of value because the fear of being wrong prevented us from striving for excellence.
As artists it is almost a responsibility to force ourselves into being wrong. We need to make wrong choices and risk the whole idea on being wrong so we can create new ideas. If nothing is ventured, nothing will be gained. If we don't embrace risk, embrace the idea of being wrong and worry only about success, we are certain to fail.
The only times where I can fathom that being wrong is detrimental is when given the correct information we turn away from it or refuse to use it; when we refuse to acknowledge that nothing is worth doing if there isn't a willingness to be wrong.


